Sunday 12 January 2014

Broke-Up ??? Now time to MOVE ON !!!




Are you a Teenager??

Or, Are you in your Twenties now??


Anyways in love, age is just a number and it has nothing to do with your relationships.


If You are in a relationship from last decade or if you are a month old couple this blog isn’t going to help you. But if you had been in a relationship and its present status is broken and this might help you in some manner.


No matter how much one tries, to get completely over your –ex is a hard thing and sometimes even after a year of break up, you cry and scream to get him/her back. The harder you try to forget your’s someone special, the deeper you fall in love with them. So there are some steps which should be followed if you want to get completely over your –ex.

1. ACCEPT IT:

Yes, accept it. Admit it that he/she has left you. Don’t waste your time thinking that they might return. Even if they do, the relationship will never be the same again. So it is better to fix your mind and heart that the relationship is all over. Put a big “END” mark to that and never allow your past ghost to haunt you again.

2. Don’t be an EMOTIONAL FOOL:

You are living in a 21st century; the century where sex is easier to get than love. If you are thinking about your physical relationship with you –ex and considering it as your biggest guilt then you are an emotional fool. It might sound wrong, but you have to move on. You have to be rude, you have to be harsh on yourself. You just have to forget anything and everything that is somewhat related to your past.


3. Do anything, DISTRACT yourself:

Yes, this is what you have to do. Distract yourself, keep yourself busy in doing something or other. If you have a passion towards writing, photography or something other then take a step forward towards your dream. You will never get time to think about that person if you get busy in doing something.

4. A FRIEND in need is a Friend indeed:

You remember you have friends, siblings and parent too. Okay you may not share everything with your parents but you can speak out your heart to your close siblings and to your best friend. Tell them about how you are feeling, do remember that friendship is always greater than love. Turn out to that person whom you trust and you really cares for you.

5. Don’t STALK, just MOVE ON:

I might be talking rubbish but this is yet another way to get over your –ex. If you are strong enough and you think you can get into a relationship then stop crying and move on. Go to that person who loves you, now don’t say that you don’t have any who loves you.
Last but not the least, never ever stalk them or their social networks account. If you want to move on just delete all their mails, messages and block them from your social network accounts.


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