It Happened That Night

Last night we slept together and honestly I was not ashamed of that. During our love making when he said that he wants to spend his life with me, I was perplexed. It’s not that I don’t like him, I obviously do like him and spending my life with him would be truly awesome but would the society accept us? 

There were many such questions buzzing in my brain as I was relishing my morning coffee. He was still asleep on the bed. I didn’t want to disturb him. I caressed his hair and gave a slight peck on his cheek. Definitely he was one of the cutest guys I have ever met.

Last night while we were returning back from our office he said he didn’t want to go home. Since I was staying alone I invited him to my home. He readily agreed. We shared a different bond, it wasn’t anything but holy. Our colleagues always used to give suspicious looks but we never cared. Every time I needed him, he was there by my side. He took care of me as if I mean something really important to him. Until that night I was considering all his love and care as friendship but the truth was something different. It would be a complete lie if I say I didn’t want him to touch me. My body always carved for his touch and it happened that night.

After having some wine, we were on my bed watching TV. The lights were turned off and everything inside the room was dark except the rays coming from the TV. It is then I felt his hand on my thighs. He moved his hand over my thighs and I felt good. My love, or call it lust was finally getting fulfilled. I looked at him and he was looking straight into my eyes. There was a spark in his eyes which were attracting me to him. I moved an inch closer. Few seconds later our lips met. I wasn’t sure how he felt but for me it was heavenly. 

With every passing second the kiss got more passionate. He then took out my t-shirt and started kissing all over my body. He wasn’t kissing, but smooching my body parts. I could feel the thing behind his pants getting harder. Now it was my turn to kiss him. I pushed him into the bed and jumped on him. I touched his bare chest; it was more muscular than mine. Even the thing behind my pant was getting harder. 

We made love that night and I would never mind making love with him again and again. Call me a Gay or whatever you want to, but I would never be ashamed of what I’m doing. 

I don’t understand why the society peoples are so much interested in our life. If a male wants to spend his life with another male, what’s the big deal? Why isn’t it acceptable? Just because they can’t have SEX and give birth to BABIES, is it fair to restrict them from making love. If they are okay with their decision, who the hell are we to oppose them? I don’t understand why the Government of India is so much interested in our private life. Don’t they have anything else to do? 

Being a GAY or LESBIAN isn’t a crime. We all have the liberty to choose our partners. Being a male if I’m satisfied with a male, why other’s hairs get burn???

Your Dreams Are Mine Now by Ravinder Singh

Author: Ravinder Singh

Published By: Penguin Books, India

Pages: 281 pages

Price: Rs. 175

ISBN: 978-01-434-2300-3

About The Author:

Ravinder Singh is the bestselling author of I Too Had a Love Story, Can Love Happen Twice? and Like It Happened Yesterday. After having spent most of his life in Burla, a very small town in western Orissa, Ravinder is currently based in New Delhi. He has an MBA from the renowned Indian School of Business. After working with a few Indian and multinational IT companies for more than eight years, Ravinder has finally taken up writing full-time. He loves playing snooker in his free time. He is also crazy about Punjabi music and loves dancing to its beat. 

The best way to contact Ravinder is through his official fan page on Facebook, at Ravinder Singh

Book Blurb:

‘It can’t be love . . .’ he thinks and immediately his heart protests. 

They are complete opposites!

She’s a small town girl who takes admission in Delhi University (DU). An idealist, studies are her first priority.

He’s a Delhi guy, seriously into youth politics in the DU. He fights to make his way. Student union elections are his first priority.

But then opposites attract as well!

A scandal on campus brings them together, they begin to walk the same path and somewhere along, fall in love . . .

But their fight against evil comes at a heavy price, which becomes the ultimate test of their lives. 

Against the backdrop of dominant campus politics, Your Dreams Are Mine Now is an innocent love story that is bound to evoke strong emotions in your heart.

My Review:

Well, I don't think I need to introduce the author. Ravinder Singh, the name in itself is enough to describe about his books. When I heard Ravinder Singh is out with his new book, trust me, I was eager and excited to hold my baby (the book, in this case). 

Though Ravinder Singh is one of my personal favorite I was completely unbiased while writing this review.

The story is set up in the backdrops of Delhi University. It begins with a prologue addressing the present condition of Delhi people. People in Delhi are holding candles and walking together for justice. Someone is fighting in her death bed inside AIIMS, Delhi and people outside, are fighting against the government to punish the culprits.

The main character of this story is a girl, Rupali. She is quite the introvert who would feel happy reading her subject book rather than watching movie in a theatre. She isn't any angel but she had something which made Arjun fall for her.

Arjun, a year senior to Rupali, is a leader, not like the corrupted ones but the one who have the quality to bring in the change in a system. 

One day when Rupali was in the corridor looking for Prof. Mahajan as she had some doubts regarding the subject, she saw him forcing himself with a woman worker. Unable to decide what, she recorded it in her mobile. Rupali was introvert but she was strong. She thought of giving Mahajan a good taste of his own medicine. Once decided, she with Arjun finally made Mahajan pay for his wrong deeds...

But how ?? Does the story ends here ?? Why Arjun helped Rupali ?? Will their love last ?? 

Well if you are thinking of this then you have to read the book.. Can't disclose everything here, it would be unfair to the Author.

This book has it all. Not only it does have a love story, it also has a deep truth about our nation out of which we are trying to run. It gives you an idea how politics is done by our beloved politicians. I am not sure whether you will cry reading this book but I bet, surely you would say, 'shit! this shouldn't have happened.

Likings: Everything.. I liked everything about this book.. Ravinder Singh is best when it comes to love and romance

Dislikes: Nothing in particular.. 

My Ratings: 5/5

(Typical Ravinder Singh's book. If you love him, you can't afford to miss this book.)

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Lost in London by Aditi Chopra

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The Story:

Rahul, a young and charming consultant who works in San Diego, California, goes on a business trip to London where he meets beautiful Priya. They feel an instant attraction towards each other; However, Priya being shy and un-trusting, holds back her emotions when Rahul returns to San Diego. Rahul also finds himself getting attracted to Mona, a co-worker in his office. As the story progresses, Rahul is torn between his feelings for Priya as well as Mona.

As we follow the two love stories, we wait for the inevitable reckoning to be made between love and true love. Lost in London is an exploration of finding and recognizing true love.

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Aditi Chopra was born in India and now lives in Texas with her family. She writes NRI (Non Resident Indian) fiction and non-fiction books.

Aditi has an engineering background but she has found her creative bone in fiction writing. Her stories range from Contemporary Romance to Women's Fiction. You might see a glimpse of Bollywood in her stories and will definitely enjoy the emotional ride.

Aditi focuses on leadership skills in her non-fiction books. Her readers get practical take-aways that they can utilize in their career.

Aditi is also a member of Women's Fiction Writers Association.

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Love by Faraaz Kazi

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Name of the Book : LOVE: LOTS OF VOLATILE EMOTIONS
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The Story :

From a man who lives in his past overhearing the whispers of the present to a woman who rescues dying souls through her blessed aura. From a little boy who must realise the truth of his life so that he can face the fears of the future to a pair of lovers who are reborn with little clue of what fate has in store for them. From a granddaughter who recollects the warm fuzzy days of her childhood to an old lady who still reminisces about the time she first fell in love. From a girl who must return to her roots to discover the reality of her true love to a stalker who tries to hide his worst secret, even from himself.

This promising anthology featuring modern Indian writing aims to capture love in all its raw forms and diverse states. For contrary to popular belief, love is just one word with many volatile emotions.

Join best-selling author, Faraaz Kazi in this journey through that one word that defines us all and one that we cannot define, as he unravels the mystery of love through a first of its kind work that features fourteen vivid stories that span across genres connected by that thing called LOVE.

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Faraaz Kazi 

The winner of the 2013 National Debut Youth Fiction Award and also the recipient of the YCOF National Excellence award in Creative Writing apart from being the first Indian author to win the coveted ‘Best Debut (Romance)’ title at the international Goodreads choice awards, Faraaz Kazi has been tagged as the 'Nicholas Sparks of India’ by many and is rated amongst the top male romance writers in the country.

A certified soft-skills trainer and a three-time post grad, Kazi is the Founder and CEO of DigiImprint Solutions, India's first exclusive promotional agency for authors and artists that recently forayed into handling corporate brands. He also consults for a few public relations firms and publishing houses. Felicitated by numerous institutes, bodies and organizations alike, Kazi is a well-known name in the social media and literary fraternity. He is fondly referred to as 'The Young Marketer' and operates a revolutionary blog with the same name and writes for major media houses.

Kazi is a fellow member of the esteemed 'Film Writers Association of India.' Truly Madly Deeply, his debut mainstream romance novel is the only Indian book to have seven category nominations in the Goodreads annual readers' choice awards and is also the only Indian book in the 'Top 100 YA Global Fiction' list. Kazi is a voracious reader and counts singing as his second love. 

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Love @ Friendship Day

03-08-2008

Isn’t it strange how the time passes so quickly? It feels as if the whole thing has happened just yesterday but there is gap of 7 years between then and now. So this is how it happened......

The clock was inching towards 00:00. The hour hand was nearing to kiss the mark 12. I was holding my mobile from last 15 minutes and was trying to compose a message to wish her, a Happy Friendship Day. I was sure she would never pick my call, so to call her wasn't a worthy idea, instead, I thought of sending her a text. 

At that age I didn’t know much about Google or else I might have copied the best message for her. In fact it was the first time I was sending a text message to someone. I typed some words, deleted it, typed again and deleted again. From last 15 minutes I was doing the same. I checked time on my mobile, there was only a few minutes before the clock would strike 00:00.

Exactly at 00:00, my mobile buzzed. It was from my best friend, Karan. I was in no mood to talk to anyone else, so I disconnected the call. I began typing, but cursed myself for failing for the umpteenth time. Finally there was no option but call her. I decided to make her a call. I typed her number, hit the green colored button and disconnected it in no time pressing the red colored button. I was nervous, damn nervous. I wasn't sure what would I say if by chance she picks the call, though the chances were less. A confused me finally opened the call register and dialled her number. This time it rang. After some rings the call automatically got disconnected. She didn’t pick my call.

Trust me I didn't felt sad because I was aware of that. Having no other option I composed a message with just three words, “Happy Friendship Day” and finally hit the Send option. I was sure she won’t be replying me but there was still a slight hope in my perplexed heart. 

I checked the watch, 15 minutes already passed but there wasn't any reply. Keeping my phone aside, I slept remembering her and imagining how life would be with her.

2 hours later….

I got a call. It was from an unknown number. I raged with anger. Who was disturbing me at this wee hour of the night. I disconnected the call. Few minutes later my mobile buzzed again, it was from the same unknown number. I woke up and pressed the red button again. But for the third time, my mobile buzzed again, number was the same; the same unknown number.

This time I picked it and said, “Hello”.

In came no reply. 

I again said “Hello” in a bit irritating tone.

But there was no reply from the other side.

I disconnected the call. I thought of switching off the phone and keep it aside but something within my heart stopped me from doing so. Perhaps I was still hoping for her text.

Minutes later my phone buzzed again. I picked it up and was just about to use all the slang I know but stopped midway as I heard a sweet “Hello” from the other side.

It won't be wrong if I say I was on cloud 9. YES! It was her. I can never go wrong on this. It was her voice. I was completely sure; it could be no one but her. For a minute I felt as if I was dreaming. Even in my wildest of dreams I have never thought that someday she will talk to me.. I pinched myself, rubbed my eyes and did all the things till I became sure I wasn’t dreaming. 

No I wasn’t, it was all happening for real.

I wasn’t able to say even a single thing. Words weren’t coming out of my mouth. I was completely out of my mind because of excitement. It was a moment which can’t be described but only be felt. 

I stammered while saying h…i… 

But I was stopped midway by her when she said, 

“Just shut up Idiot !! I want to love you for sometime, just shut up”.

Hearing this, my whole world stopped right within.

I again made sure I wasn’t dreaming; no I wasn’t. 

I stammered again, ww..hh..aaaa..t.???..???

After that all I could hear was sobs. She was crying. Her sobs was clearly audible on phone. I tried my best to stop her from crying. I kept on asking her why is she crying, what’s the matter, could I help her in any way?? 

I did all I could do to stop her from crying. But she didn’t stop. She cried even harder. Her sobs became louder. There wasn't any other option for me but to hear her weeping. 

Exactly 10 minutes later, she finally stopped crying.

This time I didn't stammer and asked, “what happened baby?? why are you crying ??”

She said the words which he can never forget in his lifetime.

She said, “I Love You…… ” and then both of us cried together....

Nobody tried to stop the significant other. They knew what they were crying for. He had the girl whom he had fell for and She had the guy who can love her to any extent.

The conversation which went after that can only be felt.

I stopped crying for some seconds and asked her not to cry……. She said she isn’t crying and cried again.. 

Seconds later she stopped weeping and asked me not to weep….. I said I'm not crying, how can a boy cry.. but cried again…

3 hours later, after crying the whole night, I stopped crying and asked her not to cry anymore. I said her, that her eyes must have been swollen up by now and I doesn’t want to make my beautiful princess look any uglier. She said she will sleep but she wanted to see me before sleeping. In no time, I took the gate keys, opened the main gate carefully so that nobody in home gets up, put my leather jacket on and went to see her.

It took me only 4 minutes to cover a distance nearly of 5kms; such eager I was to see her. She was standing on her terrace. I stopped my bike in front of her home. It was early morning and there wasn’t any person on road, I was able to see her clearly. I looked up, towards the sky, and thanked God for giving me the most beautiful girl of the universe. 

I took a U-Turn and went to my favorite place; the same tea stall which had witnessed every moment of my love life. I lighted my favorite brand; gold flake and took a long drag of it. I was happy because now I had everything that I had wished for. I was enjoying the puffs when I received a message, it was from her.

“I know you smoke, but don’t you dare to smoke or else I’ll kill you”.

He smiled, threw his half burned cigarette and typed,

“I promise I never will.. ” (Such a liar..)

after that I typed again, “Happy Friendship Day, I can never ever forget this Friendship Day”

7 years later, Sameer still weeps remembering that day of Friendship Day.. And he broke his promise too, he smokes.....

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Love or Arranged: How would you get Married ??

Don't you guys think marriage is a very important criterion to get distinguished in the kind of society we are living in? I have heard many people especially the neighborhood aunties saying the so-called famous filmy dialogues,

‘Beta ab to naukri bhi lag gayi, shaadi kab kar rahe ho??’

‘Aur bataiye beti k hath peele kab karwa rahe hain??’

Trust me when you get to hear such things your mind rage to slap these guys. These neighborhood aunties are such a pain in the ass. Sometimes I do feel, even my Mother isn’t that worried the way these society peoples are.

Anyways, coming to the point, through this post I want to express my opinions regarding the so called important thing, ‘Marriage’.

As Wikipedia suggests, Marriage also called as matrimony or wedlock, is a socially or ritually recognized union or legal contract between spouses that establishes rights and obligations between them.

In simple words, Marriage is a term our society has made to unite two people (they may also be of same sex, though it is unfortunately illegal in India). When you choose your significant other and marry, it is called Love Marriage and when the same is done by your Parents it is called Arranged Marriage.

Now before jotting down my personal views on Marriages, let me begin with a story. The stories that I’m going to discuss here aren’t fictional and are true to the best of my knowledge…..
(In the public platform real name can’t be disclosed..)


She completed her graduation. She wanted to be independent, so she joined a school as an assistant teacher. There she met with a guy who was her colleague. He was smart and was around the same age of her. Days later after spending some quality time together they both fell in love with each other. Their love was true and was envied by others. If there is a term, ‘Ram-Sita’ Jodi then it would perfectly suit them.

After spending 6 long years in love, they finally decided to marry. She told everything about the guy to her parents. Her parents disagreed. Though he was smart, his income wasn’t good enough to run a family. She promised that she will work even after marriage but her parents didn’t agreed. With no other option, she decided to end her life. She took 22 sleeping pills in one go. Thanks to the almighty that her sister saw her while doing so and informed her parents. She was soon taken to the hospital and was saved. Now her parents had no other option but to agree.

They finally tied the knot. Their love won…

All is well that ends well, right??? But this is not the end…….

She got pregnant 4 months post marriage and that is when the real problem started. She now found hard to go to work. She decided to quit her job. Her husband wasn’t happy with the decision. He very well knew his only income won’t even satisfy their daily needs. He asked her to get aborted. For him it wasn’t the right time for giving birth to a child. She refused, she wanted her first child. He was stubborn, he began torturing her, not just mentally but physically too. She cried.. She cried everyday but there was no one to hear. She called her parents and informed them everything but they left the whole thing to the couple. They clearly said he wasn’t their choice, they knew this was to come someday, they left the whole thing to her……….

She was strong enough. She took the decision.. She filed a case and divorced him. She joined a different school.. Worked even in her 7th month of pregnancy.. Took leave for 2 months, gave birth to a sweet little baby girl and joined the school again.


Now tell me would you call this a failure of Love Marriage ???

Here is another story:


Her parents searched the best groom for her. She was their only daughter; they wanted to see her happy. They spent their entire saved money on her marriage. The groom’s family asked for a dowry of 20 Lakhs but her parents didn’t hesitated, though all they had was only 20 Lakhs. Everything ended with a happy note. She finally moved into the family of her in-laws.

Marriage life was all good for her. She perhaps had one of best man one would ever dream of. He was working in a MNC. They had a 2 BHK Flat, a Mercedes Benz and everything a normal human being will wish for.

He smoked, he drank, she asked him to quit, he didn’t, and she compromised.
He used to come late at nights, she asked, he asked her to shut up and she compromised.
She had no other option but to compromise on anything and everything.

She even found pictures of her husband making out with other girls, when she asked about it to him, she got a tight slap. All she did was cried and cried some more. She thought of saying about it to her parents but dropped the thought as she didn’t want to hurt them in their old age….. She decided to compromise all her life…

Tell me would you call this a successful Arranged Marriage ???



Hope you get an answer and brush my knowledge a bit….



Here are some Pros & Cons of Marriage:

Love Marriage: 

Pros:

1. You already know about your partner; their likings, disliking and everything.
2. You have taken your own decision and no one has pressurized you for doing such. There won’t be any kind of tensions.
3. As you already know about your partner, it would be easy for you guys to adjust with the things when living in together.
4. Last but certainly not the least, Love Marriages generally eradicate the social evil called ‘Dowry’.

Cons:

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1. If it’s love cum arranged marriage, the problems might be less but if you guys have married even after your parent’s objection then you have to face the consequences alone. Less are the chances that anyone will stand by you in your bad times.
2. When in love the couple spends most of their time over phone calls or texts. Generally we don’t show our bad habits over phone. In order to impress we keep on showing the good things that we possess. What if your partner comes out of bathroom without washing his hands?? YUCK!! Isn’t it???
3. Assume if the marriage somehow didn’t work, you might have no one to support you. No doubt you can get back to your parents but remember how they had felt when you left them in their old age..

Arranged Marriages:

Pros:

1. Who better know us than our parents?? How could you think they would not search the best for us??
2. In arranged marriage there is that thing called, ‘Excitement’. Won’t your heart double its speed on the first night?
3. The kind of society we are living in people won’t give sarcastic comment if we marry as per our parent’s choice.
4. As Chetan Bhagat described in his book, 2 States: “In India, Boy’s family has to love Girl’s family and Girl’s family has to love Boy’s family and only then marriage is possible”. So in arranged not only the bond between the couple gets stronger, even it creates a kind of bond between the two families.

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Cons:

1. The biggest and foremost demerit of Arranged Marriage is, it gives birth to the social evil system, ‘Dowry’. Generally in India a rich Bride easily gets a good qualified groom than a middle class bride.
2. Your likings might be disliked by your partner and then the no stopping arguments will continue making your married life a living hell.
3. Who knows your partner might be having an extra marital affair out of your knowledge. He/she married you only because her/his parents forced her for doing so.

Conclusion:

You will find Pros and Cons for almost everything and Marriage isn’t any exception. Some Love Marriages are worth inspiring while some Arranged Marriages could be considered as epic love stories. But there aren’t any perfect argument to justify which of the duo is better.

Remember unlike love, Marriage isn’t a child’s play. Think twice and even thrice before taking the biggest decision of your life.



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Broke-Up ??? Now time to MOVE ON !!!

Are you a Teenager??

Or, Are you in your Twenties now??

Anyways in love, age is just a number and it has nothing to do with your relationships.

If You are in a relationship from last decade or if you are a month old couple this blog isn’t going to help you. But if you had been in a relationship and its present status is broken and this might help you in some manner.

No matter how much one tries, to get completely over your –ex is a hard thing and sometimes even after a year of break up, you cry and scream to get him/her back. The harder you try to forget your’s someone special, the deeper you fall in love with them. So there are some steps which should be followed if you want to get completely over your –ex.

1. ACCEPT IT:

Yes, accept it. Admit it that he/she has left you. Don’t waste your time thinking that they might return. Even if they do, the relationship will never be the same again. So it is better to fix your mind and heart that the relationship is all over. Put a big “END” mark to that and never allow your past ghost to haunt you again.

2. Don’t be an EMOTIONAL FOOL:

You are living in a 21^st century; the century where sex is easier to get than love. If you are thinking about your physical relationship with you –ex and considering it as your biggest guilt then you are an emotional fool. It might sound wrong, but you have to move on. You have to be rude, you have to be harsh on yourself. You just have to forget anything and everything that is somewhat related to your past.

3. Do anything, DISTRACT yourself:

Yes, this is what you have to do. Distract yourself, keep yourself busy in doing something or other. If you have a passion towards writing, photography or something other then take a step forward towards your dream. You will never get time to think about that person if you get busy in doing something.

4. A FRIEND in need is a Friend indeed:

You remember you have friends, siblings and parent too. Okay you may not share everything with your parents but you can speak out your heart to your close siblings and to your best friend. Tell them about how you are feeling, do remember that friendship is always greater than love. Turn out to that person whom you trust and you really cares for you.

5. Don’t STALK, just MOVE ON:

I might be talking rubbish but this is yet another way to get over your –ex. If you are strong enough and you think you can get into a relationship then stop crying and move on. Go to that person who loves you, now don’t say that you don’t have any who loves you.

Last but not the least, never ever stalk them or their social networks account. If you want to move on just delete all their mails, messages and block them from your social network accounts.

LOVE @ Social Networks

" SOCIAL NETWORKS:
               makes a platform for love "

“LOVE”

Isn’t it a common thing in today’s world. The society or the surrounding where we live is full of love birds. 

It won’t be wrong if I say 95 out of 100 people are committed to some or other. And the rest 5 are those unlucky guys who get rejected by the one they had proposed some time back.  

Ok, let me come to the point, we are living in a technology dominant era where Facebook, Twitter, WatsApp and BBM are a common thing. Having an account (Profile) in such social networks isn’t a very big deal. All you need is a laptop or a smartphone with a working and running internet package. 

Now some will say the world is developing at a faster rate and we need to get acquainted with these networking stuffs. Well, I don’t disagree either, we need to walk/run with the fast developing world.

Anyways, there are a lot of pros of it which I don’t think is required to discuss. But with the pros, these networking sites also have a lot of cons. And the main con of these networking stuff is, it provide a platform for love.

Yes you heard it right, PLATFORM!!!!

Many use these sites to get committed or it can be said many use these sites to make someone fall in love with them. To be precise, BOYS (not all but most) use Facebook or Twitter to make girls fall for them; trap an innocent girl by using their Casanova style of talks.

Let me describe it through an example….

Generally, it will start from a friend request. He (A Boy) will send friend requests to random girls on Facebook. Once She (A Girl) accepts his request, he will start chatting with casual “Hiees” and “Hellos”. He will then try to impress her with his sweet talks; he will show as if he truly likes her. After having some days and nights of random talks he will ask her number. Days later their Facebook chats will turn into mobile talks and so on.

Okay, till now everything is fine, nothing seems wrong.

Then the real game begins… If he is honest and truly likes her, he will keep her like princess; no doubt about it … but this happens very rarely…

In all the other cases, after a few days he will get bored of her and will repeat all the above written steps to trap another innocent girl…

Through this blog I just want to say to all the girls to get aware of such boys. Love happens at Facebook or Twitter but such true love stories are very rare. Think a thousand of times before accepting him as your partners. Don’t fall for his sweet talks, talk with him, get sure of his feelings first.

I would suggest Girls to ask for his password. Stalk at his profile for some days. If he really loves you he won’t hesitate to give you his password and if he don’t than you know better what to do.. Take Care :) 

A Bee & The Lotus

"More or Less,
             we all need Love"

A young and handsome Bee was in search of flower-nectar for purpose of making honey. He was flying but none of flower attracted him. 

Suddenly a sprouted red lotus, blossoming in a pool of waste water distracted the Bee through its fragrance. 

The Bee went near her and just when he was about to suck the nectar of the flower, Lotus closed herself. Bee got angry and with an annoying voice said, 
"You bitch, you are growing in waste. No one here cares about you. It is me who acknowledged your beauty, how dare you to close yourself ??"
Lotus very politely replied, "Dear Bee, in this world how could you get all for nothing. To get something, you must give or sacrifice something"
Bee replied angrily, "Ok don't blabber much just say what you want??"
The Lotus smiled and replied, "You have to find it yourself, come back to me when you are done."

The annoyed Bee flied. But his anger didn't allow him to forget the incidence. He was very much stubborn, he decided to do anything and everything in order to get nectar from Lotus.

He saw a Beetle flying, he went near him and asked, "Hello my friend, do you know what does the Lotus wants ??"
The Beetle replied, "How would I know, I never need Lotus for any of my work"

He then went to cloud and asked, "Hey beautiful cloud, do you know what Lotus wants ??"
Cloud replied, "Yes !!! She wants water"
Bee happily flied to Lotus and said, "I promise I will water you every day, now let me suck the nectar."
Lotus replied, "I get water from cloud, why would I take it from you, try again my dear Bee"

Confused Bee flied again, this time he went near sun and asked, “Hey Almighty, do you know what the Lotus wants”
The Sun dashingly replied, “Yes!!! She needs sleep” and thought *why would I help Bee, who is he to me??*

Bee happily flied to Lotus, “I promise I will sing for you and make you sleep.”
Lotus smiled and said, “Oh! My poor Bee the night makes me sleep calmly, why would I want that from you??”

Bee was helpless; he began crying and screamed all his heart out. 
A passing Sage heard his cry, he called Bee and said, “Every God’s creation needs love. Not only humans but even animals, flowers, birds all want love.”
The delighted Bee thanked the Sage and flied back to Lotus. 

He smiled and kissed her. The lotus smiled and opened her; the bee went in and stole the nectar…

[[ An English version of a Sanskrit story which I had read ]]

Its true this might be story but it tells us a number of things..

• In this world, we all need love. A thing which is hard to be done through force or power can be easily done with Love...

• Nobody wants to do anything without any favor. Here, to get anything we have to sacrifice something. Most in fact All are selfish here...

• Nobody cares about you until and unless they have some work from you...

• Last but certainly not the least, no one is a waste here, each and everyone are valuable in some or other manner....

Copyrighted: Santosh Panda

Love Never Hurts

Different peoples have different opinions and the thing which you all are going to read here is my opinion. I cant bet it is 100% true but for me they are the truth.

Love; the most beautiful thing one could ever feel. It is something which cannot be defined by using mere words but we can feel it. It is a type of bond between the duo which makes them feel special in each other's company.
One can easily share his/her feelings with the one whom he/she really loves.
Have we ever thought, why we can easily share everything with our best friend but not with others. The answer is special, because we trust them the most, we know they will never stab us at our back, they are the ones who means us the most.
Similarly a love relation needs trust and understanding. No relation in this world can be strong without Trust.
We often say, love hurts... but this isn't true.. The truth is, it is the people who ditch other for their own selfishness. Its the human who hurt the humans. Love is just a feeling, how it can hurt anyone ????